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EASY SUMMER MAKEUP ROUTINE AND CHAT | IM SPILLING ALL THE CHIPS
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LETS CHAT : TREND INTERPRETATION AND CURRENT EVENTS
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BRA TALK | FASHION FOUNDATIONS PART 1
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LIFE UPDATE AND CHAT
Просмотров 7 тыс.День назад
ALL THE LINKS OF THE PRODUCTS DISCUSSED/ MY FAVES : liketk.it/4L2Nu ZARA LEATHER STRIPED SKIRT www.zara.com/us/en/striped-leather-skirt-limited-edition-p01966303.html?v1=317330933 ZARA CARGO PANTS www.zara.com/us/en/pnt-sknnn-crg-12-p04886902.html ZARA LEATHER JACKET www.zara.com/us/en/belted-leather-coat-limited-edition-p01966308.html?v1=317331023 ZARA LEATHER SKIRT IN MINT COLOR www.zara.com/...
5 WAYS TO ELEVATE YOUR SUMMER STYLE
Просмотров 8 тыс.14 дней назад
ALL THE LINKS OF THE PRODUCTS DISCUSSED/ MY FAVES : liketk.it/4L2Nu Join this membership channel to get access to perks: ruclips.net/channel/UCpSD5wLAiWhiD7AkDbCodNgjoin Camera Im using : rstyle.me/ pPvqU8HsupBge67KuiIITQRay ⭐️Shop my LTK ⭐️ www.shopltk.com/explore/itscarolyngrayLTK 💚Please keep in mind all links are considered affiliated links and offer potential for me to make commission for ...
Handbag Collection Update | Loving and Regrets?
Просмотров 10 тыс.14 дней назад
ALL THE LINKS OF THE PRODUCTS DISCUSSED : liketk.it/4KIWN Join this membership channel to get access to perks: ruclips.net/channel/UCpSD5wLAiWhiD7AkDbCodNgjoin Camera Im using : rstyle.me/ pPvqU8HsupBge67KuiIITQRay ONE ON ONE BOOKING : calendar.app.google/J5cnRwHDbaG82fe5A ⭐️Shop my LTK ⭐️ www.shopltk.com/explore/itscarolyngrayLTK 💚Please keep in mind all links are considered affiliated links a...
DUPING GONE WRONG ?
Просмотров 9 тыс.21 день назад
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WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON IN FASHION ? NEWS UPDATE
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JUNE FAVES AND AHA MOMENTS
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FIRST TIME IN THE HAMPTONS
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THRIFTING IN NYC | Shopping day gone Right? | Stores to Know!
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REAL LIFE : A CREATOR LIVING IN NYC | PREMIERS | TRAVEL | BLACK GIRL MAGIC | OUTFIT INSPO
Просмотров 11 тыс.Месяц назад
REAL LIFE : A CREATOR LIVING IN NYC | PREMIERS | TRAVEL | BLACK GIRL MAGIC | OUTFIT INSPO
MY SUMMER OUTFIT FORMULAS | OOTD GO TOS
Просмотров 12 тыс.Месяц назад
MY SUMMER OUTFIT FORMULAS | OOTD GO TOS
INFLUENCED & INSPIRED | WHO IS ON MY MOOD / VISION BOARD
Просмотров 9 тыс.Месяц назад
INFLUENCED & INSPIRED | WHO IS ON MY MOOD / VISION BOARD
LUXURY HAUL | I MAY HAVE BROKEN SOME RULES!
Просмотров 13 тыс.Месяц назад
LUXURY HAUL | I MAY HAVE BROKEN SOME RULES!
SUMMER CLOSET RESET | PURGE | ORGANIZATION
Просмотров 10 тыс.Месяц назад
SUMMER CLOSET RESET | PURGE | ORGANIZATION
REAL LIFE : I LIVE IN NYC AS A CONTENT CREATOR | EPISODE 3
Просмотров 7 тыс.Месяц назад
REAL LIFE : I LIVE IN NYC AS A CONTENT CREATOR | EPISODE 3
PERSONAL STYLE : FORGET THE 3 STYLE PILLARS, WHAT ARE YOUR STYLE PERSONALITIES?
Просмотров 10 тыс.2 месяца назад
PERSONAL STYLE : FORGET THE 3 STYLE PILLARS, WHAT ARE YOUR STYLE PERSONALITIES?
MY FAVORITES | GAME CHANGERS AND SYNERGY GIVERS
Просмотров 8 тыс.2 месяца назад
MY FAVORITES | GAME CHANGERS AND SYNERGY GIVERS
LIFE UPDATE : WEIGHT GAIN | MOVING IN NYC | WHAT IM QUITTING
Просмотров 10 тыс.2 месяца назад
LIFE UPDATE : WEIGHT GAIN | MOVING IN NYC | WHAT IM QUITTING
WORK ATTIRE INSPO | HAUL | AFFORDABLE LOOKS MIXED WITH LUXE
Просмотров 9 тыс.2 месяца назад
WORK ATTIRE INSPO | HAUL | AFFORDABLE LOOKS MIXED WITH LUXE
REVIEW TIME!!! MET GALA 2024 GREEN CARPET LOOKS
Просмотров 8 тыс.2 месяца назад
REVIEW TIME!!! MET GALA 2024 GREEN CARPET LOOKS
FASHION EMERGENCY : WHAT WOULD YOU DO??
Просмотров 6 тыс.2 месяца назад
FASHION EMERGENCY : WHAT WOULD YOU DO??
SNEAKER TRENDS | WHAT IM SEEING IN NYC | IN MY HUMBLE OPINION
Просмотров 10 тыс.2 месяца назад
SNEAKER TRENDS | WHAT IM SEEING IN NYC | IN MY HUMBLE OPINION
REAL LIFE: I LIVE IN NYC EPISODE 2
Просмотров 8 тыс.2 месяца назад
REAL LIFE: I LIVE IN NYC EPISODE 2
THE ENERGY IS OFF, LET'S FIX IT | HOME UPDATE | SPRING RESET
Просмотров 10 тыс.3 месяца назад
THE ENERGY IS OFF, LET'S FIX IT | HOME UPDATE | SPRING RESET
How to Style White Shoes | To some, it doesn't come easy
Просмотров 8 тыс.3 месяца назад
How to Style White Shoes | To some, it doesn't come easy
IM NOT SHOPPING FOR A WHILE AFTER THIS | SPRING HAUL
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IM NOT SHOPPING FOR A WHILE AFTER THIS | SPRING HAUL
Grow up and Elevate : WATCH for 2024 Wardrobe Maintenance and Shopping
Просмотров 9 тыс.3 месяца назад
Grow up and Elevate : WATCH for 2024 Wardrobe Maintenance and Shopping
IM SICK OF THESE ITEMS IN MY WARDROBE | LET'S PLAY DRESS UP
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IM SICK OF THESE ITEMS IN MY WARDROBE | LET'S PLAY DRESS UP

Комментарии

  • @marciwalker9368
    @marciwalker9368 Час назад

    Carolyn this was such a lovely ❤️2️⃣❤ video you shared. I can relate to so much of what you spoke about especially the workplace experiences. You're appreciated, stay blessed cookie.

  • @RamonaAlgarin-27
    @RamonaAlgarin-27 4 часа назад

    This was an honor to be a part of. You trust us and that speaks volumes. You capability to be vulnerable and honest was a new level of cookie. It’s like a cookie deluxe. Here’s some tea… I have a younger sister and younger brother born a week apart while my mother was married to my father. A hot mess.

  • @ReindelBohinc
    @ReindelBohinc 4 часа назад

    HEY kislux !! I have been watching you for years and im so proud of where you have made it! I love you so much! Also thanks for making my day <3

  • @heytoniade
    @heytoniade 7 часов назад

    “Recorded on a Tuesday” lmao

  • @heytoniade
    @heytoniade 7 часов назад

    😂😂😂

  • @TemplesJasin
    @TemplesJasin 9 часов назад

    I felt this wonderful feeling in my mind, body and soul when she said “I prefer kislux

  • @MaliqPribyl
    @MaliqPribyl 13 часов назад

    First time LYXBAG kuch different colors ka LV bag dekha..very elegant....good choice

  • @ancestorbackwithanewname
    @ancestorbackwithanewname 14 часов назад

    I’m a new subscriber and I’m so glad you have skins reviews. I have NEVER seen a bra like this 😂😂 I was gonna just get the dress but now after seeing this bra🤣🤣I feel the same way about SM copping other peoples design. It’s a mess

  • @omowhanre
    @omowhanre 15 часов назад

    A lot of Nigerians also kept their kids in their hometown village as they work/study in the States.

  • @CamieSkarlette
    @CamieSkarlette 15 часов назад

    the LYXBAG would be super cute during the fall with a nude or tan or even tonal outfit! i’m thinking a tan wool coat with that bag!!

  • @Sheetacoop
    @Sheetacoop 17 часов назад

    “I’m excited to uphold their legacy”...Oh you were Sharing sharing! I love the long chats. Your honesty and vulnerability is always appreciated. 🍪♥️

  • @negrosonly2025
    @negrosonly2025 17 часов назад

    Hi there! I rarely comment on YT videos these days but I need to say! This is my favorite video next to the video you recently made “shop my closet ,” the livestream. So frank so honest and so so refreshing! I relate to just about everything you said. Thank you for sharing and please do this again, maybe a weekly video?? 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @uu7794
    @uu7794 19 часов назад

    Agreed with the rap. Yes sex and sexuality and nudity are natural things but this cheaply sexy looks are degrading and lacking of creativity. Rather be a realist than being on the side of toxic positivity.

  • @deewitt2833
    @deewitt2833 19 часов назад

    I absolutely Love Your Introduction video 😍just to here how you survived this thing we call LIFE😉The many retail experiences. The people we encounter in life truly impact us 🙌🏾

  • @uu7794
    @uu7794 19 часов назад

    As a european (we have horrible dictators etc here too) but sometimes can’t believe US politics lol. But seriously how the f can there be a situation and a effing time in history of the world that a man like Donald Trump could be a real president the second time lol. Scary and absurd as f..

  • @l.p.5476
    @l.p.5476 День назад

    I just saw on on Walmart's site for $29.99! The days of European artisan craftsmanship are practically over and done and these lux designers know this! Everybody is just trying to make some coin by any means necessary, unfortunately.

  • @Nisa1971
    @Nisa1971 День назад

    Black girl maguc! ❤

  • @yeamaneal5652
    @yeamaneal5652 День назад

    I suspected you were fascinating person, and it was confirmed by this conversation . Wow 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @bmapso
    @bmapso День назад

    This skirt is for standing 😂😂😂😂

  • @brittneyk0158
    @brittneyk0158 День назад

    Wow! What a journey! As you venture on, be sure to give yourself and others some grace along the way as you discover YOU! 😊🙏🏼

  • @pretti_dope
    @pretti_dope День назад

    I'm 45 amd literally the one time in my life that I was laid off from a job my manager was a black woman. I interviewed with her and a yt woman and in the interview she was shitty as hell. I was surprised I got hired. I was let go right under three months.

  • @nadinecampbell352
    @nadinecampbell352 День назад

    Thank you for not crafting your life on social media to look so perfect that people can't relate. I appreciate you for being transparent and honest about all the things.

  • @jeffiesmith7583
    @jeffiesmith7583 День назад

    I really enjoyed getting to know you!!! I was named after my grandmother & like you, I feel that I’m like her in many ways. I’m not as quiet as she was, but I do feel I’m like she was in many ways. This video was so very enjoyable!🥰

  • @sondreacroswell5940
    @sondreacroswell5940 День назад

    Thanks so much for transparent, I am 42 years old with a 3 year and love it. It was not easy getting pregnant in my 30s. I have to go to the doctors and get tested to find out I had low overian reserve and had to see a fertility doctor. I got healthy physically and mentally. I then changed my diet to vegetarian, and with all the changes to my diet and taking vitamins, I was blessed with my miracle child. I would suggest going to get tested now. Don't wait a year like i did to get tested. Between me trying to get pregnant on my own, testing, etc, 3 years passed before my healthy pregnancy. ❤ Love you cookies!

  • @kearstenw3855
    @kearstenw3855 День назад

    "mr.monopoly" 😅😅😅😅

  • @KarolinaLdn
    @KarolinaLdn День назад

    Thank you for sharing your story❤

  • @naturallynicole1494
    @naturallynicole1494 День назад

    I’m a new follower by way of TikTok so I thoroughly enjoyed this video!!! ❤❤

  • @MrsDivinerightHeard
    @MrsDivinerightHeard День назад

    I really enjoyed listening to your reveal of yourself. I watched it twice, I love seeing how people walks can relate in this journey with completely different back stories. Thank you for sharing truly. ❤

  • @hautepinkandfabulous8416
    @hautepinkandfabulous8416 День назад

    Carolyn, I recently discovered your channel and have been watching you a few months now. I have never commented but love your humor and your style. This video was totally different and I loved it! Your voice is so soothing! You drew me in with your vulnerability. The way you tell a story is captivating! Loved hearing about your life and how you grew up. Thanks for sharing and good luck on alllll of the things that are in the horizon for you. 🤗

  • @gloriaevans5693
    @gloriaevans5693 День назад

    Baby girl I’m sure you have helped so many get stronger than they knew they could GOD IS GOOD thanks for your compassion and sharing stay strong in JESUS NAME

  • @theselfishjourney
    @theselfishjourney День назад

    like it tell my son when we have a heart to heart "good talk". I'm 46 and I'm the most scared I've ever been in my life about so many things and not really sure how to overcome that feeling. I do enjoy witnessing my son, my nieces and nephews growth...that keeps me going they are doing so well as 20somethings. I wish you everything you wish for yourself Carolyn

  • @karenmickens1239
    @karenmickens1239 День назад

    Love you cookie!❤

  • @marcyfraley7479
    @marcyfraley7479 День назад

    I’m in a long distance new relationship with a army service man who I met online, I was a little well a lot skeptical trying to make it work and at first trusting he was a real person but we got through that. He has been deployed since March and won’t be home until Nov. I love the color red, I want to be a RUclips fashion content creator but I’m afraid to start. Btw I just love you, you are so real and so funny I really could hang out with you. Be blessed!

  • @judylugay9024
    @judylugay9024 День назад

    Very interesting video ✅✅✅💯💯. Thanks for the makeup tips ❤

  • @sharonmcdaniel6321
    @sharonmcdaniel6321 День назад

    This is so real Queen Cookie! You are just brilliantly next level. Thank you for you. ❤❤❤❤

  • @gracelayne1978
    @gracelayne1978 День назад

    you covered it all . love it.

  • @annuzzelle
    @annuzzelle День назад

    amen - totally introvert extrovert - love people but love time with me, more lol.

  • @jasminebaby3375
    @jasminebaby3375 День назад

    Great content. I’ve learned to much and didn’t really I needed this. Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @nicknamerych6442
    @nicknamerych6442 День назад

    Totally appreciate your transparency in this video and in your content. Big fan of your style and how authentic you show up in this space…. You’re also funny AFFFFF to me 🙈 much respect CG

  • @gigiflavoroflife
    @gigiflavoroflife День назад

    What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing, family dynamics are crazy and beautiful all at the same time! 🍪🫶🏾💕

  • @kathleenharris8824
    @kathleenharris8824 День назад

    Congratulations on getting the Elle internship off the ground! I think little Carolyn would be proud of you for all that you have accomplished.

  • @NotYourLoser
    @NotYourLoser День назад

    Girl, I am in the middle of moving with my man as well and while I am blessed to know that we will be hiring moving help. I have literally had images of me moving the couch downstairs by myself because I just have trust issues and then I also have envisioned me moving the couch up the stairs to the new place by myself with those same trust issues. Well, my partner called me Apartment Zilla 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @SolCareMimi
    @SolCareMimi День назад

    4:13 Gorgeous family photo! You grew to look identical to your mom. Love her cut, shades and lip color - she’s killing it! Dad looks suave. So cute that you all 3 had the frames 😎 Your family, upbringing and sibling situation sounds sooooo Caribbean. Too relatable. I can totally understand feeling frustrated not being able to sustain or learn more languages. I’m new to the cookie gang. Saw your style video then shortly after Monros influencer vid been here since. Would love a monthly story time!! Bengali bf sound interesting and relatable. Also would love to know your moon or riding sign, smthg is making the Virgo sign extra spicy lol. Loved hearing about your job history and appreciate your authenticity and tact sharing those experiences. Skin folk DEF ain’t always kin folk. Much love and well wishes for your move, future endeavors, partnership with Carlos and motherhood. You’d make an amazing mom. Stay encouraged ❤

  • @judieannozine
    @judieannozine День назад

    Do not give Candace Owen any energy. She is utter trash. If you notice when she stops getting attention, she just doubles down with MORE stupidity.

  • @NysheKCarr
    @NysheKCarr 2 дня назад

    Wow!! Loved this video CG.. Your story is empowering and an amazing reflection of who you are.. You’re so inspirational!!✨✨

  • @nicolem7969
    @nicolem7969 2 дня назад

    You look just like your mom!

  • @thatjedininja
    @thatjedininja 2 дня назад

    Some of your childhood experiences resonate with me. You’ve got a very inspiring story! Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @jnjenki
    @jnjenki 2 дня назад

    Thank you for being so open and vulnerable and sharing with us ❤ Whew! Learning to accept your discernment is a process. Some of my less amazing work experiences have helped me learn to trust that intuition. I moved to NYC with my now husband back in 2015 to work on the corporate side of luxury retail, and I have since taken steps away from that space. I’ve been trying to carve out an entrepreneurial path forward for myself. I think we’re the same age (I am also a Virgo) and I understand the worries about having children. My friends have really been helping me feel more secure in my journey though.

  • @monicaherrera2224
    @monicaherrera2224 2 дня назад

    I think the Celine-Taylor drama was just a misunderstanding. Taylor was instructed not to touch or go near Celine while receiving her award due to her condition. I agree that she came off rude since she didn’t acknowledge her at all, but there are photos of them talking off stage immediately after she got the award. I’m sure that if she was offended Celine would have said something to her directly. We all have our moments, and I don’t think she meant anything by that interaction The Lana thing was a lose-lose situation. She was invited on stage because she was featured on the winning album, and we all know that if she had been ignored there would also have been people calling her rude, selfish and entitled. And I disagree with calling her an ungrateful little girl. You might not like her or her music, but all the evidence points to her being a pretty decent human. Some of the positive things I’ve heard about her include: - Every writer, producer, director and musician who has worked with her describes her as incredibly gracious, kind and hardworking. Some of the people I know that have publicly praised her songwriting and work ethic include Stevie Nicks, Paul McCartney, Billy Joel, Carol King, Dolly Parton, Kobe Bryant, Shania Twain and Bruce Springsteen - She prioritizes connecting with her fans. Before the release of every album (before the pandemic) she used to invite fans to her house for a listening party where she’d bake them cookies, and talk with them for hours. People who were invited have said that they were shocked that she actually knew the names, interests, names of family members and pets of every person in the room - For the past year, at every city her tour has stopped, she donated to local food banks enough money to fund a year of their expenses - Last Christmas she gave 50 million dollars in bonuses to her employees. On average, every truck driver went home with a $100k bonus over their base pay And of course she’s not perfect. For instance, I find her political activism to be very lacking, but acting like she’s the worst the entertainment industry has to offer is absurd. In a world in which rich celebrities are known for using and abusing people under them without accountability, I think the presence of a woman who does nothing but make music, connect with her fans and win awards is a net positive

  • @cas.stacks
    @cas.stacks 2 дня назад

    i love the way you share your story with so much love and compassion, you're a fascinating woman Carolyn Gray, i'm sure your great-aunt is proud of you <3